My world My life

A year has passed, and if i look back, all i can see is planning, packing, travelling, moving, staying at a place for few days and again start the same process. It has been in a loop, like a song being played on repeat mode. Sometimes a breather; sometimes painful! There has been a time, when i wished to have a life busy like crazy; just keep on doing things, you try to strike one thing from to-do list resulting in adding up of ten new line items. Appointments, meetings, get-to-gathers, catching up with old friends, hanging out with partners, exploring new places, learning new language, deep diving new cultures, making space for new friends in your life, removing clutter/encroachments from mind and heart. All in all,  a new start , a phase. And then , there you are, being a typical Virgo, struggling somewhere deep down in your heart to accept the changes popping up now and then and the adjustments you do to make life! A word to summarize would be "Chaos" but in a...

A few days back, my cute little (oops she is no more little :P ) angel asked "How are you feeling?" The only word that came to my mind as an answer was "Empty". Strangely, i was not asked any question back. This shows up to what extent she understands me. It feels so great when you have someone in your life who understands you and makes an effort to feel what you are going through. This becomes more special, when you are an introvert. Well few friends of mine,will not agree with the fact that am an Introvert, which is (un)fortunately true. Now the icing on the cake, when you come across one more such person. I have a plethora of friends, though very few of them actually know me. Don't misunderstand it as my friend's fault, it is mine. I really feel uncomfortable when it comes to opening up, to share what i feel. Very few among the friend circle, are the ones who are a part of my inner circle. And now, there is one more addition to this small group. A n...

Its more than 6 years that i started this blog, and more than 7 years that i started blogging. And in this duration have started and stopped writing many times, and every time i stopped writing, thought that may be will not be able to write again; and after a gap am always back. So is this time. May be soon, i will update this place. Khushi

Yesterday while on my way to home (from office), came across this song on FM. And this reminds me of you sweetz !  Here is the song... Tere jaisa yaar kahan Kahan aisa yaarana Yaad karegi duniya Tera mera afsana  Tere jaisa yaar kahan Kahan aisa yaarana Yaad karegi duniya Tera mera afsana  Meri zindagi sawaari Mujhko gale lagake Baitha diya falak pe Mujhe khaat se oothake  Meri zindagi sawaari Mujhko gale lagake Baitha diya falak pe Mujhe khaat se oothake Yaara teri yaari ko Maine to khuda mana Yaad karegi duniya Tera mera afsana  Mere dil ki yeh dua hai Kabhi door tu na jaaye Tere bina ho jeena Woh din kabhi na aaye  Mere dil ki yeh dua hai Kabhi door tu na jaaye Tere bina ho jeena Woh din kabhi na aaye Tere sung jeena yahan Tere sung mar jaana Yaad karegi duniya Tera mera afsana  Tere jaisa yaar kahan Kahan aisa yaarana Yaad karegi duniya Tera mera afsana And The  Video

“Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma — which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary." - Steve Jobs I started reading one of the biographies of Steve Jobs, and am stuck on this one quote. This quote has changed my life in last 6 month drastically. It has changed my thought process, the way of living life and my attitude towards life. Earlier i took my life as it came, with accepting almost all the things it offered me. Without making a single try to change it, or what it offered. Life has offered me everything , happiness, pain, love, betray, trust, sometimes broke my trust, some magical people, some beautiful moments, best of memories and many lessons. And today, when sitting in...

Hi everyone! Seems its time for a guest post. One of my very good friends V has written this, and i could not stop myself from sharing this here. So here it goes! An Open Letter to a Five Point Someone IITian Dear Kool IITian I  once being your wife take this opportunity to make you realize that WIFE is not a Video Game. You do not press the button to get instant reactions as you wish to. I am a human being whose dynamics is defined by a cumulative effect of past experiences.  I know that you are super cool but if you have any of the analytical skills of JEE left then realize that there is a limit to coolness in real life, else a phase transition happens and the state of coldness occur. And since you are so much programmed to avoid/ignore or overlook emotions, I must make you realize that COLD is not about temperature changes it’s an attitude that in human terms is called indifference to other’s sufferings. I also understand that you have been led into a belief that ...

" Being on the other side of table, also gives you an insight of what other person is all about sometimes, because you already have been through it ." This though came to me last week, when i was interviewing few for my team, and about two months back i was in the shoes of the person on the other side of table, ie was giving my own interview. I could see it in the eyes of the candidate, all the thoughts, fear crossing his mind, once crossed my mind as well. It is just the time, which has changed its face, and took me to the other side of table, where i can reject or accept someone based on my intuitions.